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Shadow Work as Default for Enneagram 4 (ENFP, INFP, INFJ)

November 17, 2021 Boonie Sripom

Additional Content:

  • What to Do When ENFPs Go MIA https://youtu.be/NS7uo4H_UnY

  • The Pendulum of Change https://youtu.be/MiGUqIlJTVw

  • Re: Pendulums of Change - Bowen Family Systems Cutoffs & Fusion (Enmeshment) ENFP INFP HSP Outcasts https://youtu.be/VpRcagL72LI

"The Four's resonance with the Shadow can also be seen in the fact that they have a natural gift for understanding the deeper emotional level of experience and seeing the beauty in darker emotions that other types would rather not feel, much less acknowledge. This can make them feel dangerous to others on an unconscious level, as Fours may raise the issue of authentic emotions that others would often rather not deal with." Beatrice Chestnut, PhD The Complete Enneagram, pg. 268

We 4s can offer a lot to inspire or encourage the Shadow work of others we meet. The balance and essential work we also must do requires working through our own Shadows before we introject others' struggles as our own.

In MBTI, Coaching, Mental Health Tags Enneagram 4, INFJ, ENFP, INFP
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