Codependency Considerations for Orange/Red Flags, Potential Abuse Cycles

***After watching, close the browser and delete your internet history if you are potentially being abused, stalked, in an unhealthy relationship. ***

Same with the phone numbers or websites: delete your calling or browsing history for personal safety reasons. This video is dedicated to the students and young people I've worked with. I wish you all the love for yourself and the relationships you're in. I also dedicate it to my little sisters and my inner child. We've come a long way. It's been a hell of a journey.

***Websites***

• RESOURCES of all kinds https://www.211.org/

• National Center for Victims of Crime https://victimsofcrime.org/

• Victims of Crime California -- pays for services related to domestic violence https://victims.ca.gov/victims/

• DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SURVIVOR SUPPORT https://www.peaceoverviolence.org/

• RESOURCES ON HEALTHY LOVE https://www.joinonelove.org/

• NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE https://www.thehotline.org/

• CRISIS TEXTLINE https://www.crisistextline.org/

On Becoming a Person (Book Rec.)

Hi fellow Messes! I was reading a section of On Becoming a Person and really wanted to share some thoughts on this wonderful book. What are some books that have helped shape your individual processes of becoming a person? 

Also, I understand that therapy is not for everyone, and I did use some hyperbole with saying it "changes everything". Please forgive my excitement with my process towards becoming.

Thank you for watching. Please take care! -Boonie

Additional Links

Carl Rogers: http://www.carlrogers.info/

Humanistic Psychology: http://psychology.about.com/od/historyofpsychology/a/hist_humanistic.htm

Safety in the Therapeutic Relationship: http://www.neuropsychotherapist.com/the-therapeutic-alliance-exploring-the-concept-of-safety-from-a-neuropsychotherapeutic-perspective/